Where Were You?

Where were you when I needed you most? Why weren’t you there? Why didn’t you care?

I’ve reached out time and time again but never do you reach out to me.

I’m tired of fighting for a one sided friendship

Tired of the tears shed when I needed you most.

Tired of you not caring enough to see if I was okay

Where are you?

Why am I wasting tears over this? I’ve been dealing with this drama for over 15 years.

I cried tears then, it’s time to stop it now.

You know what hurts the most?

Knowing you’re oblivious to all of this. You don’t even see it, do you?

Where were you when I needed you most?

2 thoughts on “Where Were You?”

  1. Some relationships have a season, and I believe God can use both the good and the bad. I’ve had a few toxic friendships when I was a teen, and my sin of people pleasing did not help me cut off those ties. I realize that enabling others does not help them. It’s good to help others, but it’s good and healthy to move on, too. God never says in scripture that we are meant to be a doormat. It took me a long time to realize that.


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